The sun rises and sets every day. There is winter, summer, monsoon and spring, every year. They are all changes which we see in nature.
Also, in our lives things don't remain constant. However hard may we try, situations, people, moods, don't remain the same forever.
So we may change as individuals, our location may change, our personality may become different & the people we know, love and trust may also change.
But, is it possible for us to welcome every change with open arms & accept it as it comes our way? I don't think so!
When some one who makes you laugh one day becomes the reason for those tears in your eyes, is it something you would appreciate? May be not. Similarly, when a person you trust, is the one bitching behind your back, is this a change you would welcome? I think not!
When my favorite coffee shop Cafe' Coffee Day, went total Self-Service, did I like it - NO. But is there something I can do about it, apart from not going there, I guess not! So when you step out on a sunny day, with no umbrella and dollops of sunscreen on your body & in your bag, but it starts pouring, can you really do something about it & keep yourself from getting wet - NO.
But there is also a person who was too fat, and he in sometime gets into a good shape, so does he like it? I guess yes, that's a change he would love. So when a person u like, starts to reciprocate your attention & affection, would you like it, I think that's a yes too.
We come across changes all our life. In the people we live with, in the financial conditions we have to bear, in the activities which take place around us, in the Mother Nature, its everywhere... Yet we never stop complaining when we come across such a change... we want the things to stay the way they earlier were. We resist if a change has no positive impact on our lives...We may show a tantrum , or shed a tear or two, but change is as inevitable a factor, as is the dawn & dusk.
A glass that is half full today with water, may become full/empty tomorrow, that's a change you may/ may not like. Also, that glass may get half filled with milk/vodka, that's also a change you may/may not like. But believing that i9t will always remain half filled with water, is not something you can really bank upon. That's what CHANGE really is (according to my perspective).
