How often do we come across people who believe that they are the only ones who have problems in life?
Why are some people so eager to share their troubles and narrate it to every possible person, without thinking about the effects it will have on the other people?
What do people gain by creating mountains out of mole hills?
Well, I guess there isn't really an answer to this. Its just that some people are unable to keep their problems to themselves. They believe in spreading their sorrows across to as many people as possible, in the hopes of finding a remedy or just reducing the burden of their heart. But do they ever consider the consequences this has. It not only troubles the other person to hear you vent, but also piles up on his own issues.
I would understand if it was a work related problem, which needs some brain storming or advice from experienced people, or which is for the benefit of all the people involved. But why do people do the same for their personal lives?
I feel that the best way to tackle personal issues, is to try and let go. Forgiving and forgetting is the best policy. It helps you to move forward & look ahead to better and happier times. Also, if you have any problem, talk it out with just few relevant people, instead of going around the town spreading the grief.
Also, whats with the crying? If a person has any issues or problems, discuss it rationally with people. Why cry & scream and create such a telly-soap episode out of it. People who think that by shedding a few tears will gain sympathy and will prove their tales right, and a rational solution to their problems, are highly mistaken. All they gain by creating such a scene is some attention. But they just add on to their own grievances and also donate some to the people they are sharing it with.
I have never understood how by creating such an atmosphere, do people reduce their sorrows. Whoever said that "happiness increases and grief reduces by Sharing", kindly explain it to me how this phenomenon works!!!
